Each day we awaken God tenders grace over our existence. His merciful blessing allowing us to once again interact with the world. It is his hope that we gift positivity in our travels through positive engagements. Can you recall the last time you gifted a kind word, shared a smile, hugged someone or simply said I support your endeavors? Well, its never too late? Start today by Saying Yes to Positivity.
I’ve been away for a little while however I’ve carried all of you that follow me in my heart. So I greet you today, Namaste, my friends, I hope peace and blessings have been at your side in my absence. Have you been conscientious in your behaviors and your actions? Have you opened your heart and befriended another. I trust that you all have been gifting love without a doubt. Let’s do some catching up. It has been an exciting summer and fall. I’ve tackled every subject under the sun in graduate psychology, and I’m proud to say it’s off to doctoral studies in 2015. I hope that you all have made significant accomplishments. There has been an overwhelming surge of cognitive dissonance in my peers, and I guess I’m the girl of compassionate wisdom. The philosopher of logic, spiritual teaching, and the enhancer of self-identities. I’ve become the person one seeks when things have become so inconsistent that the need for cognitive (stable dispositions) re-adjustments and behaviors have now become my forte. I’m appreciative of those who seek my discretionary abilities. Today we address the issue of cognitive dissonance from theorist Festinger, L., (1957), and I hope from you understanding the concept you can apply some consistency to your lives. Cognitive dissonance is a mental representation of internal conflict (disharmony) that arises from contradictions in beliefs, values, morals, judgments, behaviors and attitudes. Whoa, that was a mouthful. When dissonance occurs, individuals are faced with a spectrum (happiness, sadness, anger, anxiety, fear, apprehension etc.) of emotions that are situational. How do we self-balance again when we are spiritual conflicted? You find a place where you can mentally decompress and begin to assert yourself again from a psychological state that is balanced and consistent (harmonious) in thoughts, beliefs and behaviors. We all suffer at times from unharmonious affairs of the mind however everything is fixable when you believe in yourself and have faith in the power of restoration. Our lives are complex and finding cognitive consonance in your worries will not surface overnight. However, placing it into God’s hands will give you peace in the midst of your troubles that will allow you to assess the dilemmas critically before you and move you to an inspired discernment.
Be at Peace & Cognitive Consonance
When your life path begins to harm you
You have made the wrong turn
🎉🎉🎉 A New Year for New Beginnings
Each year on the first of the first month we press restart and reinvent ourselves all over again. We are given the opportunity to right the wrongs, revise another dream. Love and leave unfulfilling objectives or simply apologize for all that we conceptualized but never achieved. If your blue that’s not the golden rule. Wipe away those feelings we all have shortcomings, I apologize for me and you, Release yourself from any burdens of regrets. The creator would endorse that. We all envision a life filled with gracious rewards, starter or larger homes, marriage, babies and a husband we truly adore. Today is the day of wonderful things to come if we learn from our mistakes and incorporate optimism and faith into our daily affirmations. Last years mistakes let them change your perspective enjoy new opportunities to create magnificent plans of reinvention. As the butterfly emerges from its protective shelter so do we each time the calendar rebirths us at the beginning of each new year. We have been blessed with the unique ability of adaptation and correction it is what guides our trajectories into self gratification. We are simply human! Implement new guidelines.
Out with the old
In with the new
Forget about your worries
Things will turn around for you
Life turns another page
Possibly a chapter or two
Fear not the unexpected
You can’t organize personal satisfaction
Destiny drives it own course
Sometimes relaxing control
Navigates you into your highest objectives!
🎉 Happy New Year, Namaste
Get in bed by 10pm
To rise again at 6am
As the warm water encapsulates me
Cleansed, refreshed with the scent of vanilla mist
I’m feeling femme and stellar
The coffee maker brews at the top of the hour
In the distance I hear the phone ringing
Blow drying my tresses, the nannies late again
Major traffic delays on 55wman
The boss is going to ride my gluteus again
OMG it’s happening again
It seems as if everyone is still asleep
Having out of body experiences, could that be
Wake up! It’s Monday
Assistant blunders, copy machine jams, website crashes
God, I’m stressed, it’s time for my noon mocha latte again
Everything that can go wrong is multiplied times ten
Here I sit holding back droplets of frustrated tears
That yearn to scream, shout and cry it’s pandemonium in here out loud
Monday Blues, are harsh but true
Full of stress and confusion
Convoluted messages stir all around you
Fatigued co-workers not completely checked in
Daydreaming of Tuesday to come alive and worthwhile
Snail speed cognition slowly awakening the start of the week
Monday blues are always the same
In bed by 10pm
To rise again by 6am
Monday’s are always slow to start
It’s time to take charge without doubts
Others depend on you
So Press the power of restart!
It begins with Monday and You.
Quite often we need to look outside of our own understanding to gain the real identity of a proposition. Does love look like this definition or something totally different. Men and women both suffer in matters of the heart. Individuals should take the time to properly assess attachments before aligning your heart and soul to something that does not honor our represent you both philosophically and emotionally. Have reverence for the temple that sustains you. Find the truth and meaning of your suitors before casting your sails, May your journeys be filled with utter bliss and fulfillment which is love!
I asked for strength
And God gave me difficulties to make me strong.
I asked for wisdom
And God gave me problems to solve.
I asked for prosperity
And God gave me brains and brawn to work
I asked for courage
And God gave me dangers to overcome.
I asked for love
And God gave me opportunities
I received nothing I wanted.
I received everything I needed.
My prayers have been answered.